Silent Expectations

Silence Expectations are killers to relationship. Quotes: “No Expectations, No Disappointments” “Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks though exceptions.” “Expectation is the mother of all frustration.” This is what Expectations do: When I put an expectation on someone, I am setting them up for failure and setting myself up for disappointment or frustration. What Expectations…

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Understanding Each Other

Every relationship is different. Every relationship is unique. What works for one, may not work for others. It is having a understanding and knowing we are all different and unique. We all know it is common knowledge that Men are different than Women. There is a lot of information out there how Men & Women…

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Candid Conversations

Book reference from Quincy Moran “How to win Friends and Influence People” By Dale Carnegie Has to do with deferring. Its a great book, check it out. Just thinking about the Man vs. Marriage Podcast , reflecting on the WHY. My heart truly goes out to Men. As I began Coaching and having couples come…

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Becoming a Better Listener

In many marriages, miscommunication is a common thing. Because NO one is listening. “I am not so worried about what I said, I am more concerned about what you heard.” If we could just STOP for a moment and really listen, miscommunication could be avoided. When we are in a conversation most of the time…

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Where Do I Start? Recap

Just wanted to recap from last Episode. Taking responsibility is a willingness and openness on your part to take a look at yourself and take ownership for your actions or behavior.  I do understand that it can be very difficult to stop and take responsibility of your actions, behavior or words because of the hurt…

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