The Art of Asking Questions

I hate to admit it but for YOUR sake I’ll fess up, in my pre coaching years I was more of the interrogation expert that a thoughtful “questioner” so to speak… that’s a bit puny. Knowing this and using my experience as a simple guideline I’m asking you to understand the art of asking questions…

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Hard Talks

Hard talks, ever had one? Ever had one face to face with your spouse? Ever had a hard talk face to face with your spouse after finding out one of you is resentful ( that’ll be mine ) and the reason you’re resentful is because of the one you love’s actions that boxed you into…

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Where Do I Start? Recap

Just wanted to recap from last Episode. Taking responsibility is a willingness and openness on your part to take a look at yourself and take ownership for your actions or behavior.  I do understand that it can be very difficult to stop and take responsibility of your actions, behavior or words because of the hurt…

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Where Do I Start?

This is a common question I get once I am sitting down in my office with clients. “Where do I even start”? I usually have two people in front of me who are either offended, hurt or ready to leave each other. They are frustrated and discouraged. The circumstances between each other are not good.…

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Don’t Take It Personal

Don’t take it personal, it seems laughable just to type it on this screen because I distinctly remember I took everything personal. By the way you may have noticed (which I’m sure you have.. you’re pretty sharp ole’ pal!) there are no easy topics. As Jim Rohn would say though “Don’t wish for easier problems…

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