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Episode 382

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16th Feb 2026

BLAME SHIFTING - PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!

Men blame others so they can justify not taking responsibility.

You can blame your wife.

Your job.

Your season.

Your past.

As long as it keeps you from looking in the mirror.

In this episode, we confront blameshifting for what it really is — emotional avoidance dressed up as justification.


For most men, emotional reactions don’t begin with anger.


They begin with disappointment — and it goes unidentified.

Then the ego gets involved.


Then the internal narrative begins:


“Here we go again… I knew it… this always happens.”


Blame feels productive.


But it’s passive.

It explains why nothing changes while convincing you that you had no choice.


Personal responsibility isn’t punishment.


It’s power.


Because once you own your part, you finally have something you can change.


This episode breaks down:


  • Why disappointment gets mislabeled as anger
  • How ego fuels blameshifting
  • The cost of emotional justification
  • What ownership actually looks like in leadership


Leadership begins the moment you stop asking who’s at fault and start asking what’s required of you.


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Helping men stop blaming and start leading at home.

🌐 Website: https://quincymoran.com

📩 Email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com

Start with the “Where Do I Start?” series if you’re ready to take responsibility and build authority in your marriage and family.

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why men blame others

how to stop blaming your wife

blame shifting in marriage

why men get angry quickly

men and emotional control

personal responsibility for men

leadership in marriage

how to take responsibility as a man

marriage leadership advice

why men feel disrespected


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About the Podcast

Man vs Marriage
Man vs Marriage
Man vs Marriage is a leadership podcast for men who want to stop blaming and start leading at home.

This channel helps husbands and fathers:
• Take personal responsibility
• Improve communication in marriage
• Develop emotional control
• Reclaim authority without fear
• Strengthen family leadership
• Stop reacting and start leading

If you feel:
• Disconnected in your marriage
• Short-tempered or easily triggered
• Stuck in frustration
• Tired of repeating the same patterns

You’re not broken.
You’re drifting.

And leadership begins with ownership.

With over 380 episodes, Man vs Marriage delivers practical guidance for men who want to build stronger marriages, healthier families, and lives they can be proud of.

Topics include:
• Marriage leadership
• Masculine responsibility
• Emotional discipline
• Personal development for men
• Communication in relationships
• Identity and authority at home

New episodes weekly.

🌐 Website: https://quincymoran.com
📩 Email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com

Start with the “Where Do I Start?” series if you’re ready to take responsibility and change direction.

About your host

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Quincy Moran

A Family Man! A Happily married man however that happiness hasn't always come easy. After 10 years of marriage and 8 children with numerous medical emergencies and family tragedy we had become roommates. Fast forward 10 years and we have become closer than either of us had ever known possible. After this amazing transformation thanks to our marriage coach Rita Enos, my wife and I decided to give back to the entire Human Race and give Men the opportunity to decide "How Good do you want your life/Marriage to be"? I am hardwired to inspire because it gives me life! It was only natural that I take this desire to inspire and my incredibly handsome face for radio to make a difference like I have experience in my own life.