Marriage and relationships how to get it all right - Man vs Marriage

Episode 257

Published on:

11th Sep 2023

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Recently, one of our listeners found himself in a place of frustration.

His question, "How do you keep everything going, how do You get it all right"(Paraphrased).

I am sure my answer to him wasn't exactly what he was looking for. The fact of the matter is we aren't robots. The beauty of being a human being is simply this: we aren't perfect. That should be refreshingly frustrating... Truth be told its our imperfections, our proclivities to failure and resiliency, our desire to grow and better ourselves that allow us to appreciate this human experience. Free will and choice, without those there is certainly no real righteousness, no real truth, no real.. Real.

I rely greatly on the idea we can build a routine and a process in order that we can re-define ourselves and our direction, I however, no longer believe perfection is the only acceptable outcome. I have done away with the false idea that we can be perfect at something. perfection demands perfection each and every time we act, I set the standard at excellence. It recognizes our humanity and releases us from unrealistic expectations. It recognizes that we are on a journey growing towards the highest standard in order that we may honor our one true gift, Life.

I build a process and live it intentionally, some of these steps become a part of my "OS" or my new nature, some I leave behind and I fail. These failures present opportunities for growth and areas where love covers the gaps in moments drowned by busy or chaos. It's there we are allowed to exercise the ability to choose and offer forgiveness and reconcile or punish and be punished by those we love in this life.

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Man vs Marriage
Man vs Marriage
Question time dude, have you ever looked at a Marriage where the husband and wife appear to be best friends and wondered “How can I get that?” Maybe you have thought about your marriage and wondered "Is this as good as it gets"? The truth is, your marriage can be AS GOOD AS YOU WANT IT TO BE. The Man vs Marriage podcast is the Man's guide to creating the best version of yourself and being proud of who you are and what you are becoming. We offer you the road map to what you want in a fulfilling life and marriage.

Follow my journey as I navigate Marriage, parenthood, and relationships with my Marriage Coach Rita Enos, who truly has a heart for Men and how we as men can totally transform our marriage while growing and transforming ourselves in the process. Find your purpose and find your sense of pride in being a man and winning in marriage.

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Quincy Moran

A Family Man! A Happily married man however that happiness hasn't always come easy. After 10 years of marriage and 8 children with numerous medical emergencies and family tragedy we had become roommates. Fast forward 10 years and we have become closer than either of us had ever known possible. After this amazing transformation thanks to our marriage coach Rita Enos, my wife and I decided to give back to the entire Human Race and give Men the opportunity to decide "How Good do you want your life/Marriage to be"? I am hardwired to inspire because it gives me life! It was only natural that I take this desire to inspire and my incredibly handsome face for radio to make a difference like I have experience in my own life.